I have all the feels today.

I have hate that there was another mass shooting. There have now been more mass shootings that days in 2015. That makes my heart hurt. I don't have words to even begin to formulate all i want to say on the subject.

So i'll just say this. Let's pray that changes begin to happen. Even small ones make a huge difference. I pray that as a country we start seeing PEOPLE instead of a race, or social class, or patient number. If we start giving people the opportunity to get what they need, whether it be a access to affordable health care, a decent paying job....equal rights....

I don't know we just need to stop acting like such assholes. My heart can't take it, I don't know how any one else's can. I don't care if you don't care about guns or gun control, but care about people and their ability to have access to what they need regardless of income, race or gender.


On a completely unrelated, or maybe not so unrelated note....Would it kill us to be nice and love the people we like a lot, well? Like I know I'm guilty of not always appreciating what amazing friends i have, but if well just took a moment to breath before we reacted, I think we'd all be better off.

Listen, Friendship is hard. Super hard. especially when you juggle work, and family, and husband and kids and whatever else....it's hard that's not time....but friends...they love you in a way that is different from your family. There is freedom in friendship, there is whimsy and honesty and laughter and tears.  But we need to be careful with the hearts we've been allowed to hold.

Grace people. So much Grace.