she's nobody's girl.....

There is something to be said for belonging to somebody or a group of people. It's like being able to go home no matter where you are. Everyone's lives somehow fit together...like a giant puzzle of love....or at least mutual enjoyment..isn't that what we're all striving for? To belong...somewhere, to something, to somebody...

i'm glad that there are lives that i fit easily into. Like there was a space just for me in their life's little puzzle. And, similarly that my life is just full of lovely people shapes that fit perfectly in my little world, and more spaces waiting to be filled....

and sometimes lying around in sweats watching funny things on the Internet is what we were always meant to do on a rainy sunday.

or eating cheesecake laughing about how we usually don't know what we are doing or what's going on and we always end up laughing at the ridiculousness of the situations we find ourselves in....

or sitting on the floor of a strangers house hearing really good music not being bothered by any looming problems that threaten to undo pieces of our puzzles, scattering pieces everywhere.....

And we can laugh about how much paint we got on ourselves and which one of us is the most clumsy. Then sit and rattle off a play list of memories that are the best reminders of why we love each other so much that we'd be willing to get up extra early on a weekend to do so manual labor.  Or pick each other up when our cars are broken., or pick each other up off the floor when everything gets crazy.

Walking around the this beautiful city we've found ourselves in, that sitting on a deck talking about the most random of things, sitting a church pew, or theatre seat together and sharing all of what life throws at us is the secret to happiness.

There is this feeling that comes with fall that everyone's missing pieces will somehow find their homes. That we will all find ourselves in our most comfortably, heart exposing, attire and we'll snuggle up on the couch together with piles of blankets and cups of tea and coffee and just be very glad that we've all found each other and we are able to share this moment.

and say for certain, that though our shapes are all different, some more jagged than others, some rounded and worn,  we all fit and belong somewhere wonderful.